She’s Still Single!!

It has come to my attention many a time through cyberspace that folks (lesbians especially) do not understand dating. I get this one particular question so often it makes me scream. Yes. Scream. To me it’s so fucking obvious. Maybe, because I am femme and these are butches inquiring. Continue reading

Lemme Tell Y’all About Bad Ass!


What started as a few Twitter comments and messages has turned into Continue reading

Battle of the Ex


I’ve considered for years to set up a dating help service for lesbians. Well, that takes money and a lot of time. Time and money to be able to quit a day job. I guessed it might be ideal to start around here. 🙂

Butches, I have to wonder if playing the broken hearted is your most fabulous pick up line? Continue reading