Quick Thought On Want vs. Need & Control



It’s been a constant struggle. I graduated high school, kicked off adulthood like a boss. Managed to keep jobs, struggle with friendships, dating and jobs. Ran through cars, had some financial bumps I hopped right over. Continue reading

Bitch, Be Real!


Be Real by Antonio Stilla

    *Please excuse the profanity and extreme no no context of the words Bitch, Hooker, Hooka, and maybe a Hoe…Love y’all.*   What the fuck do you want? Continue reading

She’s Still Single!!

It has come to my attention many a time through cyberspace that folks (lesbians especially) do not understand dating. I get this one particular question so often it makes me scream. Yes. Scream. To me it’s so fucking obvious. Maybe, because I am femme and these are butches inquiring. Continue reading

Workin’ For The Man..


Rant about work. I know, it’s been awhile. I know that I haven’t even caught y’all up with what’s been going on. I’m pissed right now with the man. That’s right. The man. Man who writes my fucking my paycheck. The man I thought Continue reading

Ladies! We Need To Talk!!


Butch isn’t attracted to a hoe! Butch, definitely isn’t attracted to a woman who wants to treat Butch like a hoe!!

Granted, Butch might be interested in a Continue reading