Uh. We’re Done, Doc.


*Please note that I’m finishing up some old pieces before I give out all the good things going on right now. I know it’s confusing. Just bear with me.*

After hours of conversation with Crush. Many times running the wedding scene in my head. I did. I gave Doc another shot.

Messy home with bathroom trash, used tampons, immaturity, social awkwardness and lack of respect for my friends and/or co-workers. Lack of respect for me. Mechanical sex. Continue reading

She’s Still Single!!

It has come to my attention many a time through cyberspace that folks (lesbians especially) do not understand dating. I get this one particular question so often it makes me scream. Yes. Scream. To me it’s so fucking obvious. Maybe, because I am femme and these are butches inquiring. Continue reading

Doctor. Doctor?

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* More on The Doctor* *Again..really sorry about posting so late!*

The third date we agreed to sex. I mean, the foreplay and teasing was going pretty well, right? There were some moments where I was a little confused. Such as, I’ve never dated a butch that wanted Continue reading

Battle of the Ex


I’ve considered for years to set up a dating help service for lesbians. Well, that takes money and a lot of time. Time and money to be able to quit a day job. I guessed it might be ideal to start around here. 🙂

Butches, I have to wonder if playing the broken hearted is your most fabulous pick up line? Continue reading