Feelin’ Butchie, Femme? Strap up!

I don’t typically “top.” It’s not in my nature. I like having control outside of the bedroom. Once those doors are closed, I wanna give in completely to the butch I’m with! Ordinarily, I want a butch to literally claim and take ownership of my body. Continue reading

Femme In Charge For a Night?

Let me preface this by saying that I love butches! They’re really the only gender I can feasibly see myself growing old with. The only gender I can whole-heartedly fall in love with. Have amazing sex with. And experience the right kind of balance I aim for in a relationship. I can feel her/hym. Empathize. Continue reading

Creepy Boi!


There have been several blogs advising femmes how to flirt with a butch. I am here, to inform the bois how NOT to behave for a potential girlfriend. Does anyone recall “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.” This is my blog as to how to lose a femme..in less than that! Continue reading

Femme Vs. Femme

I joke about being jealous. It’s funny to me. My Hubby doesn’t like me joking about it….so I have experienced some jealousy through our years. I DO feel I have experienced the same femme vs. femme situations.

C’mon. Some of us girlies Soooo know what I’m talking about, right? I know that there are different levels of femmes. Some of Continue reading