But, She’s the Slut?

 

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I get so bored hearing that lesbians only fuck a chick when they’re in love. Yet, it’s those same women who fuck that chick before professing any sort of feelings. Other than wanting to get drunk and have sex. All wooing included. Drinks, strawberries and cute shit like that. But, those items do not in anyway claim monogamy!!

Nope!

If the chick you’re wooing does go to bed with you? She is a slut, whore, tramp, any other sexually free shaming words you like choose? I’m confused. Because she OK’d your invite. YOUR INVITE!! She’s dirty?

But, she’s the slut?

Dear DoucheBag, Please stand in line with the rest of patriarch!

No matter how much said woman has claimed that she doesn’t want a serious relationship. No matter that she has explained that she’s looking for a good time. You failed to listen. Continued to woo her. She expressed nothing beyond that night. And You call her a slut or a whore.

But, it was a first date for you too? Wasn’t this your first night with this woman? Aren’t you a slut, too? Eeew! You dirty, fucking hooker!

Oh. But, you fuck for love, right? Ok. So you have U-Haul as your #1 contact in the cellphone?

BULL-FUCKING-SHIT! And you fucking know it! Rather, than admitting Your fuck up you shame Her!

You’re part of the problem. You’re one of them. Like the shitty boys in high school. If she didn’t fuck you she’s a prude. If she did? Well, then she’s clearly a slut.

You’re as sick as the assholes who claim a woman wearing skimpy clothes is asking to be raped!

A woman can’t win. Even in the fucking lesbian community. Appalling! If a woman has the sexual freedom to fuck whenever with whoever. You should embrace that part of her. You make the decision of fucking her or not! But, we shouldn’t condemn her for her own fucking decisions!

You’re the asshole. You’re the asshole because you invited her into your space with the intention of having sex with her. But, turn around and call her a whore because she followed through it!

It simply means you got butthurt because she doesn’t want a second date with you.

In my experience, being called a slut after fucking on the first date has been a mix of reasons. After fucking that love-sick lesbian a creeper vibe has followed. I had a date with a butch who thought everywhere she turned I was there. And because I didn’t invite her or say hi when she waved at this doppelganger didn’t wave back. I must be avoiding her. Never mind, that I was actually at a friend’s house texting her that I’m not at a bar.

Not even an official couple and already defending myself? I didn’t want a second date. Nope.

I must be the evil, cold-hearted, slut. Of course. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that butch blowing up phone with texts of jealousy while we’re not even a real deal yet? Blocked.

While I was single I would communicate that I wasn’t looking for anything serious. Dear Love Sick Lesbian, when a woman says she’s not wanting anything serious. She means it. It doesn’t mean that she’s waiting for some knight in shinning armor. Nope. It means she’s enjoying her single life until she feels that she’s ready to get serious. Yes. For some enjoying the single life involves some fun nights. If you happen to be apart of that.

It takes two. End of story. She and you make the decision.

That’s all in her defense. For you? Dear Love-Sick Lesbian, protect yourself. I’ll elaborate on that another time. That newly single woman probably isn’t the one for you to date just yet. Give her time. That woman who states she’s not wanting anything serious isn’t the one you need to woo. You’re not a knight in shinning armor to her. You kinda freak her out. Because she knows you’re looking for more.

 

 

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