A very close and personal friend of mine sent this to me wondering if it was a decent explanation for stones. I thought it was so well written I begged her to let me post it on my blog!
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“Unfortunately the term Stone has been taken out of the context of what it actually is and many that identify as Lesbians say they are a Stone Butch when they are different from each other. I am not a Lesbian but rather am more transgendered as many like myself do change their sex. I do not desire to change mine as although I am female bodied I embrace that I am of both genders more male then female. I like being soft without facial hair and the contradiction. Stone is not just in sexuality for a true Stone but a way that they are or I am in all areas of life. A way of being of thinking. Sexually, I am always the pitcher never the catcher to use an analogy. I have boundaries in touching me. I strap on and my strap is real to me and not a toy and I feel pleasure through it. Although I can feel without it. In order to feel pleasure I need to satisfy the other person because it is from their pleasure that I can be pleased. Some think that Stones are untouchable and cold which is truly a myth and an old school way of thinking. I am touchable in more of the way that one would touch a male. Usually Stones are more hard looking then I am so I am told and have observed. I like that I am gentle-looking and deep and sensitive and I do not believe that to be male identified that one has to negate these qualities. I treasure them.”